The specs of DSP are not exactly clear; it may be interpreted that the input clamping (protection) circuits on the digital inputs, for the positive input voltage, are actually activated at 4.6 V.
At that voltage each input is able to take 20 mA momentary (and total for all inputs), and 2 mA continuous. Together with the series resistors that you have -- this may explain why it works without blowing up.
On the other hand, a more traditional understanding is that the protection diodes will kick in at VDDIO+0.3V , especially considering the note (2) in the spec below.
Second issue:
If I use SN65LBC170DB with +5V supply can I go with 22 Ohm in series on RX and 15 Ohm in series on DSP side without any issue?
Can be the lifetime reduced?