I just realized that my AM3517 board has a discrepancy compared to the EVM by logic PD. On logics EVM both the CLK_DP and CLK_DN lines coming from the AM3517 go through a 10 ohm series resistor before reaching the DDR chips.
I mistakingly routed the CLK_Dx lines over to the 2nd BEFORE the series resistors. So this means that the first chip will will see CLK_Dx lines with a 10ohm resistor in series and the second won't.
Are the 10 ohm resistors super important? Or can I just put in 0 ohm? I haven't yet looked to see if I can make board revs.