This really is a continuation of https://e2e.ti.com/support/interface-group/interface/f/interface-forum/1085604/dp83867cr-phy-generating-rxdv-traffic-on-the-other-end-with-autonegotiate-turned-off/4018633#4018633 which must have gotten locked when I wasn't making updates.
I got back to testing this part. I have examined the TxEn line on the sender side and the RxDV on the receive. The scope shows no changes on the TxEn, but I still see activity on the RxDV. In that attached scope captures, the yellow is the RxDV, Blue is TxEn. This is across two different boards with teh DP83867CR. If I just loop my cable back on the same board, and look at these two signals on that board I do *not* see any activity on RxDV. We have added the 2.49k resistor on the RxDV line to set it to mode 4, as well as a pull-up to MDIO.